30 Signs That You’re Being Emotionally Abused

November 13, 2015

People often speak on physical abuse and how damaging it can be, but rarely do they speak on emotional abuse which can be just as damaging. Many times resulting in very low self-esteem.

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So, what exactly is emotional abuse? Various sources suggest emotional abuse involves a regular pattern of verbal offense, threatening, bullying, and constant criticism, as well as more subtle tactics like intimidation, shaming and manipulation. It is used to control and subjugate the other person, and quite often it occurs because the abuser has childhood wounds and insecurities they haven’t dealt with, perhaps as a result of being abused themselves.

In some cases, neither the abuser nor the victim are fully aware they are being emotionally abused or abusive. Below are 30 signs that you are in an abusive relationship.

1. They humiliate you, put you down, or make fun of you in front of other people.

2. They regularly demean or disregard your opinions, ideas, suggestions, or needs.

3. They use sarcasm or “teasing” to put you down or make you feel bad about yourself.

4. They accuse you of being “too sensitive” in order to deflect their abusive remarks.

5. They try to control you and treat you like a child.

6. They correct or chastise you for your behavior.

7. You feel like you need permission to make decisions or go out somewhere.

8. They try to control the finances and how you spend money.

9. They belittle and trivialize you, your accomplishments, or your hopes and dreams.

10. They try to make you feel as though they are always right, and you are wrong.

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